Hello Bonnie,
I definitely find my bladder is worse on days when I feel emotional.  Anger or panic seem to be the worst. However, I've been finding recently that when I calm down, the pain tends to go away fairly quickly as well.  I find it helps to just sit and breathe deeply in a quiet area a few minutes whenever my emotions are feeling out of control.  Invariably, I'll calm down a bit and the pain subsides.
 
Best of luck witih dealing with your own issue!
Lauren