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Hey Girls, this is not really bladder related but during the last months this forum and the facebook group have become a place where I can share my fears and hopes. So now I share with you that my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. I´m very sad that it didn´t work out. But honestly I know it´s better this way. I´ve been suffering a lot throughout the last months. I cried every day because of what he did. Don´t get me wrong. We had the most beautiful moments and I received a lot of love and caring from him. But many of his actions made me so sad and angry. I felt my gut compromising very often and it scared me to death. I was afraid that this relationship was keeping me from healing. I became very very obsessive with him. Really not healthy at all. So now he´s gone and I have the urge to start a new life within a healthy environment. My plan is to move to Portugal, where the quality of food is so much better than in Berlin. And I need to get away from everything that reminds me of him. At least for a while. I want to find myself again. I want to be happy again. I know this will help me to heal faster. Actually my health issues started to get really bad when I first met him. Did anybody experience something similar? Like having to start a whole new life because of a break up?
Hi Annika! I am so so sorry
Hi Annika! I am so so sorry that you are feeling sad because of your breakup. Unfortunately, I can't really share any similar stories as my last break up experience was in high school... and I've been with my husband all of my adult life. BUT... I just wanted to send you a message to tell you that even though this is a sad experience in some ways, you are a beautiful woman inside and out. I agree with everything Ally said. This recovery experience is so much more than physical. We're shedding a lot of emotional, mental, and psychological stuff as well. And with that shedding comes renewal, a rebirth. You are blooming into a whole new person! You are strong, beautiful, and deserve the very best in ALL areas of your life!
Annika,
Annika,
I'm sorry to hear about your break up, I feel that I know exactly what you are talking about in terms of how you were with him, I have had a couple of relationships that felt very similar!
I have to say though, that I really do think that you are right in terms of your healing and getting rid of this negative energy in your life.
I have interestingly enough had pain coincide with a negative relationship more than once, and once I release the relationship, I have found that I have been able to heal much faster.
So Congratulations on this new healing journey for you! :)
You are amazing , don't let anyone tell you anything different <3