I don't think you can you would have to sign up as a differen't account as in have two memberships. No one is going to judge you tho. I wish I could write in and say I was having sex. I totally have a drive but the PAIN no way not yet. Most days I am way to fatigued but I would love to and i definatly have days I am really horney and that sucks I can't do crap about it.

You would be surprised how many people who read and post here could probably relate to whatever it was you were thinking of saying;) It's hard to put it out there and I've wanted to address this subject on different angles too.  I too wish I could have sex but I think maybe it will happen sometime this year! Maybe sooner than later?Soooo... hmmm... here is a question for everyone- do you feel that orgasms whether brought on in any fashion can cause flares in bladder/VV/Pelvic tissue for a while afterwards? Sometimes I think it can for me although sometimes I think the orgasm releases trigger points in my pelvic floor muscles and that is nice! I wonder if having sensation even if pleasurable is read by the nerves in the pelvic/vulva /vagina tissue as painful simply because those nerves are kind of overly sensitized in a sense (kind of burnt) and/ or also because pressure/friction exacerabtes the inflammation that is already there? Also does the bomasense personal lubricant weaken condoms like other oil based lubricants? These are just random questions I have related to sex and if I remember the other ones I have that I am not myself embarrased to post I'll put those up too! Thanks! Mary 

oh well even in the past when I decide to pleasure myself because then there is no pressure on my bladder. My urethra would be feeling good on a day like this and then I would have the big O and BAM urethra pain flair stright after. Now the act relaxes my pelvic muscles but once I get off I do tend to tighten relax tighten I don't know if that does something and then theres the friction going on right by the urethra I am wondering if there is some sort of better position or trick to making this less likely to happen. Now I can't even do this all that often but it's kinda nice when i can.

I don't see why it would be a problem

My notes from the call re: oral sex say:

• Intaking sperm or receiving saliva (oral sex) from partner if they've eaten sugar/alcohol can cause a full-blown UTI.  If you're going to do it at least wash really well after.  Once you're well the body can handle oral sex fine.

I would get more info/confirmation from Matia. Couldn't tell if it's an issue only if they've recently eaten such things or if that's a regular part of their diet.
If you wouldn't mind posting the answer when you find out that'd be great!

right  would think giving would be more of a risk then to recieve ?

Yes, I will definitely ask at my next appointment and post her opinion on it.

As I currently understand it, giving is ok if you spit out after - she doesn't want us swallowing that stuff!
Sharon - thanks for being willing to ask & post after.