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I searched the forum and didn't see this anywhere so I thought I would share.
I tend to struggle with doing too much and exhausting myself, pushing too hard to be at normal energy levels when I'm not.
A good friend shared this with me, although we don't have lupus, the 'spoons' metaphor really helped me for explaining energy levels or lack of to people (and to myself).

http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoo...

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I absolutely love this!!!! Thanks for sharing.

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cprince

Thanks for sharing, great explanation!

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deir

My SIL who has colitis, sent me this in the beginning of my illness. I can relate. My issue is never energy- thankfully, I have a lot. It is more the mental energy. I can easily do too much and then feel completely overwhlemed. ALso, driving bothers me so much. i can't run around doing errands. I have figured out ways to deal with this but also sometimes I fel like, "WHy do I have to think so much?" I really think in the long run, it is a great skill to have. Even people who aren't sick run themselves ragged and forget to stop and meditate, pray or just be.

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DLFox123

Dear C.
I tried responding to a post that you had made about having a really rough time with your Mom and her worry about your herbs? When I submitted it - both my post and yours went poof - gone. Am I just losing my mind - or did you post this?
Thanks,

Denise